Sometimes your fuckbuddy won’t be able to fuck when it is convenient for them. Sometimes they are out of town, or they don’t have the time or energy to do the real thing. Instead of getting sexually frustrated or heading over to Pornhub – maybe you can have phone sex together!
This can be quite intimidating as most people don’t have phone sex often unless they are in a long distance relationship. There are many ways to get along these days, including Snapchat, video chats, snapping a naughty picture and traditional texting. Texting can be so inhumane. Texting is not personal. You can’t hear the other person’s voice or hear their breath deepen. And you don’t have the opportunity to feel the excitement build. This sounds better than typing just a few words on a webpage, according to our opinion. How do you initiate phone sex? What if she’s not interested in it? What if she doesn’t like you? What if she feels you are too forward-looking or not ready to take the next step? This can be more intimate than a face to face meeting and it can be quite intimate. You might feel vulnerable when your little friend is having sex. So ….wait ….what can you say to put her at ease? You may be comfortable using your mouth but not this way. HELP! We are here to help you, dude.
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Make It Look Like You’re On A Date
You aren’t going to sex with your girl first, but you will wine and dine her, make sure she feels special, and make her feel loved. Phone sex should be treated the same way. Do not call her and demand phone sex. NEVER demand. You can tell her how beautiful she looks in the photo she sent earlier that day. Ask her about her day. Let her know that you are listening. Make her feel at ease. Tell her how much it was missing you talking to her at work. Tell her you are looking forward to meeting face-to-face. You would love to go on a date with her. Ask her if you feel comfortable with her. Ask her if you want to do something different. Tell her that you want her, and then bring up phone sex. It doesn’t matter if you ask her “Hey, would you like to have phone sex?” as that could ruin the mood. It’s okay to bring it up slowly. You can tell her to touch her neck and explore her body. Then, go from there. This is foreplay. Most likely, she will get very hot and tired.
It’s All About Her
You can make it about her liking you and she will reciprocate. Women are used to men being selfish in the bedroom. So don’t get too caught up in your desires. Listen to what she has to say and follow her lead. Don’t be afraid of asking her questions about her preferences and needs, but don’t place too much pressure on the subject. It’s possible to still lead the conversation. You don’t have to feel awkward for a few seconds. Just laugh it off. It’s common for people to laugh at sex while having sex. It’s not that serious!
Do not Demand
This isn’t a phone sex service. That shit is for another day. Keep in mind that the other person on the line is a human being. Hopefully, it’s someone you care about. This is a sensitive issue. This isn’t a phone sex service. You don’t pay her per minute to fulfill your fantasies. These fantasies are shared. Phone sex is done together. You are not the only one she is there for. Be sensitive to her boundaries. Talking about certain topics might not be appropriate. Ask her if you are sensitive to certain subjects. If so, steer clear.
Do Not Cum and Go
If she’s not there yet, it is still possible to have a conversation if you are able to get your desired outcome. If she is there, or even better, with you, then don’t forget to hang up the phone. Nothing is worse than a man jumping into your bed and then running away. Keep talking on the phone. Talk to her on the phone. There are always opportunities to improve.