Whenever we bring up a new sexual conversation with a partner, we are exposing a part of ourselves. Even with long-term partners this can feel so risky that we avoid it altogether. But keeping lines of communication open is essential to keeping a long-term sexual relationship alive. One way to make these conversations feel safer … Read more
Try as we might to compartmentalize sex — to say stuff like “what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom” — the truth is that our sex lives are part of our whole lives. Whatever is happening in our life will have some impact on our sex life and more broadly on our sexuality. And … Read more
It is common for couples in long-term, committed relationships to get to a point when they don’t have the same level of sex drive or desire to have sex. Discrepancies in sexual drive or sexual desire in a long-term, committed relationship might be the result of a range of factors. Here are just a few possibilities: Conflict … Read more
If you aren’t having the sex you want you aren’t alone. So why does a lackluster sex life leave most of feeling so alone, and so much to blame? There are two fundamental untruths that lie at the core of this problem. The first is the idea that there are two kinds of people in the world, those … Read more
It’s a pointed question, isn’t it? Imagine being asked this question by an ex who called you up, years after a break up. What about if it was a current partner asking immediately after an intimate moment? What if it was your doctor asking, or your best friend? Your answer would likely change depending on … Read more
Is love something you need for great sex? Before you answer, think about all your sexual experiences, and you pull out the ones that you would call great. Did every one of them happen with someone you loved? If we’re being honest I think the answer to the question has to be no. Or at least, that not … Read more
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