Are you shy and timid thinking that it’s all about him? This is a time to stop thinking that way, especially when it comes to a fuckbuddy. What’s the point of a “fuckbuddy”? It’s to get yours with no strings attached, a qud pro quo or “I scratch your back, you scratch mine” mentality.
You don’t have to be in the bedroom with a man just to get along. It’s not just for the sake of having sex with men. You should feel good about it and you shouldn’t be afraid to ask for help if you want to push yourself beyond the edge. Portia in Julius Caesar said, “Am I yourself but, as it was, in some kind of limitation, to stay with you at meals and comfort your bed, talk to you occasionally?”
It is 2019, folks, and women can fulfill their needs as well as men. We’re not here to feed them or make sure they have a good night’s sleep before we send them to bed. It is not their job to please them. It is our responsibility to please ourselves, and they should be willing to help! Ladies, it is time for you to enter the new world. Here your pleasure is as important as theirs.
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Talk
This may seem obvious, but many fuckbuddies aren’t willing to go there. They may not be as comfortable as they want to be with each other, or they might be embarrassed by having certain desires. Or maybe they were taught to avoid sex until marriage. Consider Carrie’s mom with her “dirty pillows.” While that may be a bit more intense than what you heard at home, we believe it still applies. While sex talks with your parents may seem like the end, it’s not.
You are an adult now. If you feel confident enough to fuck someone and call them your fuckbuddy then you should feel comfortable enough talking about your likes with them. Let the sexy side of you take control and leave the shy and timid parts at home. All parties will benefit from this. You will feel more content after a good night’s sleep, and your partner will be happier knowing exactly what he should do to get you there. Men want to please you.
Feel Comfortable
Ladies, getting comfortable SO IMPORTANT. Don’t rush, as nobody can do it when the clock is ticking. Let your partner know if you feel rushed by them. It is almost always a matter of your mind that they are enjoying what they do. It is time to get rid of them if they don’t enjoy it.
….If you are uncomfortable with any part of your body or wish to cover it up, this is a sign that you are giving your naked body to a man. He is happy that you are there. He is not going to judge your body for its imperfections. You are the one in control of your body. It is okay to hide anything you don’t want your fuckbuddy seeing. You can wear a bra if you wish. You can spread your breasts and show off everything. Don’t forget to cheer them on when they reach that perfect spot. Get yours.
Get Something New
You can do it! You can try anal, a threesome or a foursome, fuck in public, fuck in public, fuck in the bedroom, foreplay, dressing up, and trying those acrobatic moves you’ve seen but were afraid of being silly. You are free to communicate your needs to your fuck friend, as we have said. You can do something you’ve always wanted to, even if you don’t have any emotional ties, with someone you see regularly or semi-regularly. You might end up feeling embarrassed and not wanting to see him again. The next step! There are many dicks in the land.