Although birthdays can be a great way to celebrate, scientific research has shown that they cause more stress than happiness. This applies to both the person who rings in the new year and his/her friends/family. Stress can be caused by many things, including getting older, planning events, or buying gifts. People find gift buying a stressful task because they have to ask themselves several questions: What do they want for their birthday? Is he/she likely to like the gift? Is he/she familiar with this gift? Are they able to afford it? It is often the best and most expensive gifts that are bought by close friends and family.
Checks or gift cards can be used to get around distant relatives. Friends are often re-gifted. The best gift should always come from the person the birthday girl/guy is most intimate with, whether that’s a spouse or girlfriend/boyfriend. We have excluded one type of friend from our mini gift guide: the fuckbuddy. Fuckbuddy is much more recent than the husband, wife, friend, parent, or even the best friend. It’s not a new concept.
Fuckbuddy is a new term that society is now recognizing as a valid place in another person’s life. A fuckbuddy would not have thought of buying a birthday present for their friend back in those days. The gift-giving process is now more complicated with the new legitimacy that comes with being a fuckbuddy. Before you decide what gift to give to the birthday girl/guy, ask some questions!
These are the questions to ask your fuckbuddy before you decide if they should get you a gift.
How many years have you been fucking each other?
You don’t have to give a gift if your fuckbuddy is a new one. This is because emotional attachment doesn’t go hand in hand with the relationship between fuckbuddies. It is not your responsibility. If you have been fucking with your fuckbuddy for longer than six months, you might want to get him/her a present. You’ll need a gift if you have been fucking for more than a year and already celebrated a birthday with your fuckbuddy.
Is your relationship more than just the bedroom?
What is the nature and purpose of your fuckbuddy relationships? A fuckbuddy can be a NSA relationship. However, a fuckbuddy can transform into something more like a friend. You’ll want to gift your fuckbuddy something if you and your fuckbuddy have a conversation outside of the bedroom.
Once you have decided that you want to give your fuckbuddy something, you will need to think of what gift. Although it may seem difficult, it is not impossible. These are the types of fuckbuddy relationships. Which one is right for you and your fuckbuddy
Friendly fuckbuddies: $20-50 gift cards to a place you know they like
You can show your friend that you are close friends by showing him/her affection in a non-romantic manner. You can think about something that your fuckbuddy likes, and grab a gift card to show your support. Is your fuckbuddy a fan of going to the movies? Does he/she love to drink coffee from a cup or talk about their favorite restaurant?
A newer version of fuckbuddies.
A candle is a great gift option if you are in a new relationship with your fuckbuddy. A candle with a low price tag of $15 should not be considered. Instead, get a candle that smells amazing and reminds you of sex. It’s a small, sweet gesture that isn’t too romantic.
Super long-term fuckbuddies: chocolates
You can have a delicious and satisfying dessert if you and your fuckbuddy have been friends for a while, especially if you’ve shared birthday(s). You don’t need to make chocolates. However, it shouldn’t be a romantic gesture or a sign of friendship. It’s easy to grab and enjoy candy and dessert for a short time. This simple, sweet gift will not send mixed signals.
Sexy fuckbuddies: Lingerie and toys
You and your fuckbuddy will be on (you know what we mean), so get a sexy present! The gift you choose will depend on your relationship, but you can go to a local shop to pick up a sexy toy that you both can enjoy together or share. You can spend more on your fuckbuddy if you are willing to spend more. You can say anything you want, fucking me now!
The “Could it be more?” Fuckbuddies: A seasonal present
This is where it’s most difficult to find a birthday gift for a fuckbuddy. The best way to deal with the situation is to find something practical, meaningful, and easy. This is why seasonal gifts are so great. Seasonal gifts include a scarf for fall, a small succulent to be used in the summer or spring, and a hot cocoa mix for winter. This gift shows that you care about the person without having to be romantic.