That feeling that you just want to have fun? You’ve been there. Luckily, you know the right person to fulfill your desires and get things done. To ensure your message is clear and concise when texting a fuckbuddy there are certain rules you should adhere to. While you don’t want your message to be too eager or desperate, you don’t want it to make you look like a complete idiot. Due to the dynamic of the relationship, sex will most likely be implied when you link up. Sometimes, however, it can be difficult to send that first text to your fuckbuddy in order for him or her to get into bed with you. No matter how long you’ve been doing this, girls (and men) don’t respond well to “you up.” Although you will need to work harder, it is not necessary to be as extravagant as Nicholas Sparks to get your dick sucked and/or vaginaly pierced.
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These are four fantastic texts that will get your fuckbuddy ready and willing to fuck you now.
The brand new fuckbuddy couple
You should be cautious about what you send your partner if you have only fucked once or not at all. You don’t want your partner to be scared away. You want to be attractive. What should you do? Sending a text with the following text is a good idea: “You should come to my place.” This text suggests that you are feeling sexy and horny, but it’s not too pushy. It’s not too invasive, but it’s proddy enough. This one is sure to work.
Newer, but more friendly fuckbuddies
This text is meant for those times when you want to be subtle but your partner will still get the message across. Let’s see what you can do: refer to any movie recently released or available on Netflix. Then say “Have ya seen the blablablabla movie?” It’s so funny, you would love to it… let’s watch!” This implies that you are familiar with and possibly even care about the cinematography of your fuckbuds. This could help you earn some extra brownie points in the bedroom. You are charismatic. Embrace it! Let’s watch it sets the stage for a plan and before you know it you will be having sex in public with your FWB.
For the fuckbuddies
After you guys have been busy for a while and it has become a bit routine, your text could be as simple as “Wanna hang?”. Stop playing around with your text and be direct. You can’t do more and you shouldn’t do less. Timing is the key to this one. Send it by 9 p.m. You can always send it after the event, even if you have other plans. You can also cancel your plans and just have sex. You can also have sex and continue with your plans. It’s your choice.
To be true friends with real benefits
You can simply say that your fuckbuddy is a friend and not a fake. Subtext is not allowed, just like the fuckbuddy text. A simple “Wanna hang?” may not work because of your relationship outside the bedroom. We suggest that you send a text saying, “Feeling horny, I have your favorite film on deck.” You can also invite them over. It’s friendly and it doesn’t mean you are looking for something more serious than a FWB fuck.