You may be feeling confused about your fuckbuddy relationship if you clicked the link. It’s possible that you are wondering if something is wrong. Don’t be too hard on yourself. It happens. You are a human being, with human emotions. If you are not sure if you have feelings, you can read our list. Continue reading if you are certain that you do. You are not alone in this difficult situation.
Want to bring it up
If you feel comfortable talking about your feelings with them, or asking if they feel the exact same way, it is a sign you are falling for a fuckbuddy. This is a sign that you are consuming someone, and can cause problems in your FWB relationship. It is a clear desire to find out what you are feeling about your fuckbuddy. You might consider reexamining your life to see if these feelings are really for your fuckbuddy, or if they are just a desire for a relationship with anyone.
You may be tempted to end your FWB relationship if you think it is the former. These feelings shouldn’t be kept inside. However, we recommend that you exercise caution. These feelings should not be shared with your fuckbuddy. It is likely that things will change. Either they’ll want more from you, or they won’t. Even if they bring it up to convey confusion, rather than actual feelings of the friendship, you will add an emotional dimension to the friendship.
You care as much about the cuddling/pillow talk as you do the sex
Fuckbuddies exist for the fun of fucking. Cuddling and pillow talk are sometimes okay, but that’s not the purpose of a fuckbuddy. You might want to reconsider what your fuckbuddy means to you if the cuddling becomes more important than the fucking. If they aren’t open to talking about their feelings or if you feel any romantic emotions during the post-sex cuddles, you may be falling.
This situation is not perfect. There’s an exception: oxytocin. This is also known as the ‘cuddle hormone’. Oxytocin is what makes you want to be close to your partner. It is possible that your feelings may be purely chemical, romantic, or both. You may love cuddling as much as you love the romp. Take a look at your feelings and find out what they are.
You follow their social media accounts
You are most likely to seek out more information from your fuckbuddy if you start following their social media accounts. You are allowed to look at their social media accounts, but you should be checking in on them regularly. This is an indication that you have feelings and want more information about the person. While you like what they have provided so far, you want more. If you see another person flirting with them/her on social networking, do you feel jealousy?
Do you want to find out more about your friend’s interests so that you can impress them the next time you meet? People shouldn’t feel this way if they don’t care deeply about someone. Don’t waste your energy or time on someone you don’t care about. If you are a stalker, it is important to be open with yourself and get help.
Introduce them to your friends (or worse your family).
This is a desire to integrate your fuckbuddy in your personal life in an even stronger way than an FWB. It can be confusing if your FWB is just enjoying a deep friendship. While you might insist that friendship is allit should be and that you want them to be introduced to your friends, it is important to remember that you are also having sexual relations with this person. Most people don’t have sex with their friends unless they are true FWBs, or very sexual beings. It is very important to introduce your FWB and your family members. We find it difficult to believe that you don’t feel for your fuckbuddy.
[Related to: Things You Should Never Do with a Fuckbuddy]
We are sorry if you feel you have feelings for your fuckbuddy after reading these signs. It is perfectly normal and acceptable to feel this way. You must address the situation with both yourself and your fuckbuddy. This was already mentioned, but it is important to have a healthy conversation with your fuckbuddy. After assessing your feelings and yourself, you can then discuss the situation with him. This conversation is essential to either getting what you want or moving on.
Keep it inside and keep your fuckbuddy company, you will find your feelings grow stronger and eventually cause you to be a sex slave. You won’t have a meaningful relationship with your fuckbuddy if you don’t want to fuck. You can have that dreaded conversation and still get closure, even if your fuckbuddy doesn’t feel the exact same way. You can then move on. In rare cases, your fuckbuddy may feel the same. While we wish for the best, we want to be realistic.