BuddyBang does not recommend that you make a hookup or fuck friend into something serious. It does happen. Although it can be great when things work out, chances are your guy has more than one side to his fuck buddies before you can consider him serious. Fuck buddy relationships are not something to be taken seriously. However, sometimes it’s the way things go. Fuck buddy relationships can sometimes be merely side relationships that rarely lead to real relationships. If you’re a side-chick who has become a real girl, it is important to ensure that your man is not in a relationship with his ex. Here are some ways to tell.
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He cheers for her on
Although it might seem odd, if your boyfriend turns fuckbuddy, he cheers for his ex, it is pretty obvious that he has no mental connection to her. It’s better than cheering on her losses. Why? Let’s say your best friend discovers that his ex-girlfriend is seeing someone else on social media. It’s a bad sign if your boyfriend gets upset about it. If your boyfriend is happy for her or, even better, indifferent to the situation, it’s a good sign that he doesn’t have feelings for her.
His name is kept out of his mouth
Talking about your ex should be avoided by your guy. It’s okay to bring up the girl in reasonable situations (such as when something reminds you of her), but it shouldn’t be a problem. If your boyfriend turns out to be a fuck friend, it’s not a problem. This is a way for him keep her around, even in conversation. It’s not okay and he may be using you to get over her.
He (nicely!) burned that bridge
You shouldn’t allow your boy to be in any way connected with his ex. You can be sure that your boy is over his ex if he has cut all ties with her on social media. He can still follow her Instagram and speak to her family regularly, but that’s not a good sign. It’s a way for her to stay around.
If he was serious about someone while having a fuck friend relationship with you, it was already a good relationship. Now that you are serious about your relationship, you will want to watch out for his hookup habits.