Fuckbuddies can be a great time. You get all the fun and none of the strings. You get all the sexy moments without the emotional ones. Even in a friends-with-benefits situation, where emotions are more prevalent because friendship is there, there’s no real responsibility to the other person. This arrangement is great for some people, but there are others who want something more than the bare minimum.
They are looking for someone to care for them, some emotional baggage, and some support. We understand that there are many types of relationships. It can be a bit complicated if you are looking to get serious with your fuckbuddy. You enter into a silent, no-strings-attached relationship with your fuckbuddy. This means that you must leave your baggage at the coat check before you can come in to fuck. It’s casual. That’s all your hookup wants from you. If you find yourself falling in love with your casual fuck, you need to be able to make it a serious relationship. These are some tips to help you get started.
Be sure that this is what you want
You must first be certain that this is a serious relationship. This is a crucial step, because you have a great thing going. Many people would love to have an NSA fuck with them whenever they want. It’s a good idea to double-check your decision before you take the next step. Imagine yourself in a relationship with your fuckbuddy. Are you ready to have dates, care for this person, and cuddle on Sundays with them? If you are screaming “YES!” then you already know. You can always sleep on it for a few moons if you’re not sure.
Slowly becoming more vulnerable
What makes a hookup special from something else is your vulnerability. If you allow your emotions to flow into conversations, you may start to form something real. Maybe your FWB will respond by sharing some things with you, and poof! You just made it more! Although it may not happen immediately, it is a great way for you to lay the foundation for something more serious. It’s also a great way to gauge your hookup partner’s reaction. What happens when you try to get serious? Are they resolute or do they try to get serious with you? There might be something if your FWB is comfortable allowing the post-coital discussions to get a bit deep.
Give them D
We know that you have been giving and receiving the D for some time now. This is a different type of D. Perhaps something naughtier. Something larger! Of course, we are referring to a date. Ask your fuckbuddy for dinner, drinks, and a movie. Find something outside the apartment and outside the bedroom. You don’t need to make it a major deal. It should not be too important. You should not book a room at The Four Seasons Hotel in Europe.
Bring a bottle of wine instead. It should be a relaxed situation so that your fuckbuddy can think about it, even if they are taken by surprise by the sudden desire to hookup. If you don’t take this FWB situation outside of your bedroom, you won’t know if it will go any further. You don’t have to make it a date. It doesn’t even need to be.
Real
Honesty is the best policy when dealing with fuckbuddies in any capacity. Although it sounds ridiculous, honesty is what you should do when you are involved in casual physical things. Official rules for casual hookups state that you must always be truthful when you start to feel feelings. This is fair for both you and your FWB. This is not always easy, and it’s one of the most common rules for casually banging. It’s important to be open and honest with your fuckbuddy. This will help you avoid wasting time and ensure you know what’s going on. The best-case scenario is always possible: Your fuckbuddy will be into you, too.